Wednesday, February 13, 2013

No baby shower for me

Waaahhh - no one threw a party and bought presents for me! Yes, you sound whiny.

You chose to have a baby - it is your responsibility, both emotional, physical, financial and otherwise.

If someone wants to get you a gift, then great, but you aren't entitled to any gifts, or a shower.

I'm sorry you're disappointed, but you need to buck up and just take care of your baby's needs yourself.

Oh lord I'm so sick of this "you chose to have a baby" crap.?

You're right.? We all chose to have a baby.? Therefore we should?never be allowed to feel sad, overwhelmed, depressed, alone, tired, or any other human emotion.

Of course it's her responsibility to take care of her baby's needs.? I don't think she or anyone else is disputing that.? But with showers being a prevalent part of our culture, and OP being far from her family and other support systems, I don't think it's unreasonable for her to have feelings about not getting to have that support system participate in her excitement of having a baby.

Showers are not always about gifts. Sometimes they are about community, love and celebration of a major milestone in someone's life. And it's ok to feel sad about missing out on that.

Source: http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/71959308.aspx

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